If we want our children to be blessed by God in this life with happiness, love and a joyous relationship with their mate, we must look to the Bible for our guideline concerning sexual relationships. In Ephesians 5 Paul clearly describes the difference between immoral, destructive relationships and pure godly relationships.
Christians should be so appalled by the immorality of sexual relationships outside of marriage that it should be considered a shame even to discuss them. (Ephesians 5:3-12). At the same time Paul discusses the beauty of a loving relationship between a husband and wife. A Christian husband and his wife will build each other up in love as they both grow closer to Christ. The relationship will be lasting and growing throughout their life as they draw closer to God. (Ephesians 5:22-33)
Dean
